Wow. I have no idea what to do or think. I’ve known this guy for over three years. Tonight he asked me out and then told me he likes me. I kind of knew that he liked me but since nothing had been said I just ignored the “signs”. And since I’m not interested in him like that it made it easy to ignore.

I feel bad because I don’t want to hurt him. But if he is saved he doesn’t care about his relationship with the Lord and that is so important to me. I can’t change or soften my standards on that issue.

Man. I hate this. I care about him as a friend but nothing more. Relationships are so complicated.